Should I Stay, Should I Go?

• Author: Dr. Ramani Durvasula
• Publisher: ‎ Post Hill Press; Reprint edition
• Publication Date: Oct. 24 2017
• ISBN-10: ‎ 168261333X
• ISBN-13: ‎ 978-1682613337
• Genre: Personal Development/Self Help

Description from Amazon.ca

Narcissism is a modern epidemic, and it’s spreading rapidly. But how do you know if you are in a relationship with one—and, what can you do about it? We live in a world of romance and rescue, where many believe love will conquer all, and that the more we endure unacceptable behavior, the more likely that we can “fix” our relationships. It doesn’t always work that way—despite what the fairy tales tell us. There are a few hard facts about pathological narcissism that most people don’t know and most psychologists will never tell you. Should I Stay or Should I Go? uses checklists, clinical wisdom, and real stories from real people to prepare you for the real terrain of pathological narcissism. It raises the red flags to watch for and provides a realistic roadmap for difficult situations to help you reclaim yourself, find healing, and live an authentic and empowered life. Whether you stay. Or go.

My Thoughts

This is a must read for anyone who thinks they may have a partner, sibling, parent they suspect might have narcissistic tendencies.  It was tough to read as I was in the thick of a relationship with someone whom I thought was narcissistic. I heard about the book through a podcast I listened to and believe me, I wish I had read this years ago. It is the best book to educate you and to help you make the decision to leave the relationship or situation.

There were so many “Oh My God!” moments but it gave me some validation of what was transpiring around me. I highly recommend this book. I can’t say enough. This saved my sanity and realized the mental fog I had been living in for a few years. If you know someone or suspect someone you know is struggling, please read this book.

Rating: 5 Stars

Reviewer: KellyR